You may think that this may be a good idea, but it is not.

I can guarantee that the reason she is doing this is because she is not satisfied in some way and is hoping that by doing this list it will likewise make you curious about the 10 things(really its 100 things) that she wants you to do that you are not doing.

You know the phrase. "Too good to be true!", ya that's what this is. Don't get upset at her, she has good intentions, however she is approaching this in a way that could be harmful to the relationship.

The needs list can be very helpful in a struggling relationship and opens doors for communication and understanding. This is a completely different beast. This is a whatever you want I'll give you, but if you don't ask me what I want and do them your in the dog house.

Trust me, best thing for you to do is not come up with a list of things that you REALLY want her to do, because she probably already has a good idea what makes you happy. Buy her some roses tomorrow, tell her that you adore her and have a little one on one time with her and see if maybe there is something that you are not doing that has been bothering her.

Again lists are meant to help two people come together, not make the other person feel obligated to do special things.

Maybe I'm wrong, but this sounds like she is trying to give you "hint".