You're way too sensitive, and naive, bro. If you think women shouldn't drink or smoke while pregnant, but it's totally normal and healthy to inject an incredibly strong anesthesia into the mother while still pregnant, then you're nuts. I'm not saying you should do one thing or another, just think about that for a second.
I'm no advocate for only home births, but Doctors and Hospitals do some shady stuff that we all pass off as normal.