Youth conference in high school...general authority (a rather rambunctious guy) speaking at a fireside. He was calling up a bunch of young men one at a time and asking them a variety of questions (some of the questions were very specific such as how long should you kiss a girl and how long should you sit in a car with a girl after a date--rather strange). He called one young man up that had a strange hairdo. The general authority starts ridiculing him and making fun of his hair. He asks him why in the world he would choose that hair style. The young man quietly responds that he has cancer and his treatment/surgery had caused his hair to look like that..........paradigm shift........the general authority completely changed and was so embarrassed.