The difference is that I obsess constantly and research everything like mad man and he rarely even shows up for a draft.
He just manages his team weekly and grabs waivers based upon current performance.

Many of our trades over the years have been severely criticized. We're regularly accused of collusion with the idea that he's throwing in the towel to benefit me. Weeks later, he's in the playoffs with me. We both make it every single year.

He asks me for advice regularly and never makes a trade without discussing it with me so it could look like we've got some sneakiness between us, but we don't. I never give him advice just to benefit me.

I just hate being labeled a cheater every year.