I will suggest it when appropriate. I think sometimes some Mormon families think that the Church, the spirit, will help them completely through all of it. Dan's a pretty level headed guy, and like you said, everyone is rallying in their home and actig as if they are okay. It's a rotten situation all the way around. Sometimes you just have to deal with tragedy with a good face and try to make sense of it in the end.
Thanks for sharing BigD and Bart.