Harbaugh is not a lifestyle guy. He's a competitor. He wants to beat his rivals (Balki and Carrol) and he wants to win at the highest level like his brother. He wants to pick and choose from the best athletes in the world.
The last thing he wants to do is grovel to 17 year olds.
This is Harbaugh's agent setting the bidding price for NFL suitors. That's all.