I'm making a decision this week whether to relocate my family (including 4 kids) from the Seattle area to a great opportunity near Palo Alto.
Is a commute from say Pleasanton or Livermore realistic? Top priority is a good family community with excellent schools and a solid LDS base for my wife to find friends quickly.
(It would be a very difficult relocation for all of us to leave close friends)

thank you in advance.