here with Kirby:
The (BYU) honor code was a little too much for me,” Kirby elaborated. “I want to be able to grow up on my own, make my own decisions, and pay for my mistakes. I don’t want someone to live my life for me. If I make a mistake in my personal life, I don’t want my football team punishing me for it. I don’t think that’s right. I think it should be your own life and you pay for the mistakes and learn from them, and not have someone else take those opportunities from you.”
http://www.scout.com/college/byu/story/1598934-wayne-kirby-explains-byu-de-commitment