Personal actions of one player happens at every single school.
You can argue that it is more likely to happen at BYU but the way he said it (and it does seem like he's being fed this logic, so I'm not trying to bring too much heat down on this young guy) basically made it sound like his personal actions will not ever affect the Utes. This simply isn't true.
Even at Utah, they suspend players for personal decisions. Not to mention that your personal decisions IN a game impact your team.
There's adoes things to the list that you can get in trouble for, definitely. And if he's nervous he can't follow those specifically, that's fine. I'm not even going to say that he INTENDS to do those things (cause that is lame) but it's the added list of stuff he is worried about, not the general concept of personal decisions impacting the team, like he said.
I'm fine with him going to Utah. He's got to make the best decision for him. If he thinks he may negatively impact his team by his actions at BYU, then that is a good reason not to come.
The "live for myself" is pure propoganda, though