services....best thing for her and the child. They have been exchanging letters for years. He now is 18. He knows who his family is but he has the opportunity to know about his birth mother (the birth father is out the picture). I didn't and I wish I did. To this day I am hoping for a phone call. I am 47. Probably not going to happen since chances are my birth parents have passed. If you get to adopt I'd be happy to talk to you about my experiences.