Not becoming elitist. That is BYU's problem. I went to BYU. And yes, I call it BYU Provo to distinguish. And I am not sorry that that offends people for some reason. I have nothing against administration or the employees there. I do have a problem with the elitist mentality of some who attend there or perhaps to a greater extent, the arrogance of some parents that gets passed on to their children who go there.
I am sorry for all those of you who have kids that didn't get in. That always is difficult, especially for youth who dream about it.