single 18 year olds away from home for the first time, getting ready for missions, some staying to play and go to school.
21 year old returning missionaries still single but looking to get married soon
18-22 year old non missionaries, some single some married
21+ year old married players, some with kids
All of these with varied family situations and support
Doesn't this make any single list that is preached to all of these groups kind of silly... at least without the added counsel that any list ought to be situational and based on context, subject to change?
I think somewhere the use of these lists has gone a bit wrong.