I never claimed anything different. Dude, you are ridiculous. I do know what "no contest" means, and you obviously didn't. I do know what vindication means, and you obviously didn't. I do know that when the prosecution and defense agree to something, and the defendant admits to it, that is considered to be true.
If a buddy gave me $20, no, I wouldn't assume he stole it. But if he gave me a couple hundred dollars worth of gas from a business, life experience would tell me something was up. When it reached over $2000 dollars, yeah, I'd know I was doing wrong. Being a poly player has nothing to do with it, and frankly is insulting to poly players for you to suggest otherwise.
Keep hiding your head in that sand though.