But I agree with many that 10 is just too many. To me it would be overwhelming and like I said before, girls will probably read into whatever is highlighted.

Usually when I "try to be a better wife" it's because I don't feel like we are as connected or close as we should be. Despite the fact that deep down I know we are fine. Usually it happens when I'm stressed by all that's going on. (And you said you had lots going on and she's pregnant. Both are things that personally cause me to be in a hurry to try and make sure I'm doing all I can for my husband since it seems like there is less time or a huge change is coming)

I think you should see if you could limit her to a couple of highlights and then maybe just set some time to be together and enjoy each others company one on one, whether its getting out of the house cause she has cabin fever, enjoying a nice dinner at home, just talking, etc. My guess is she would feel better.