you can do better to make me feel loved". Very big difference. She might be doing great in a lot of your 10 areas.
Communication is very important in marriage, and it is good to know what kinds of things help your spouse to feel loved, because everyone is difference.
But be very careful and tread lightly my friend. You know your spouse. She could be very humble and honestly looking at continuing to improve your relationship. But even if it is not a trap, it certainly can go.