-If you cannot make simple payments like phone bills or credit card payments, you should not have a kid.

-If you cannot create an environment that provides rational structure and accountability to raise a kid, you should not have a kid.

-If you cannot separate your own ego from the stupid crap your kid will do and choose to defend the stupid crap instead of correcting your kid, you should not have a kid.

-If you won't vaccinate your kid, you should not have a kid.

-If you'd rather see your daughter in a brothel than at BYU, you should not have a kid.

-If you cannot commit to at least 18 years of actual parenting or at minimum, provide adequate financial support, you should not engage in behavior that results in kids.

In summary. Kids are not real people. If you have a kid, your job is to help them become real people, not pathetic, dependent, societal leeches. This is not optional. Rant over.