A very effective but hot tempered and often profane coach, who some of our family helped to bring in, once described my younger brother's play in a very colorful phrase that would likewise get me banned.

Yes, I thought, "what a jerk "at the time. No I wasn't happy.

Thing is, younger brother took it personally--in a productive way. Younger brother elevated his play significantly and had more touchdowns in his team's playoff run than he did during the regular season.

Little bro ended up second-team All-state, and the entire family laughs about the three-word, foul-mouthed dressing down he took on the sideline that one day. He's still friendly with his coach.

Moral of story: I can't believe the OP is that wrapped up in Kalani saying, "Come on." That is eons away from the worst thing a competitive athlete would expect to hear in that situation.