read this post:
https://www.cougarboard.com/board/message.html?id=13663137
remember, this is a fan site. we have BYU's best interest in mind as priority #1 over your child/family member. you are the opposite. either one of us can be wrong at any given time and at times our perspectives can lead us to opposite conclusions but as long as we are reasonable in expressing our diverse opinions nothing should change about this board. at all.
and i'd check yourself first as you appear to exhibit the same traits you so quickly condone.