It's not about blame but it's about help. Husbands, wives, brothers, sisters, sons and daughters need to educate
themselves on signs of depression and suicide. If we can recognize those signs and get the treatment that they need that is a step in the right direction. But to say a few suicides are acceptable or inevitable is wrong and you should be ashamed for saying that. If this young woman was as bad as byubyu said she was she need to be institutionalized, even if she didn't want the help.