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Apr 19, 2019
3:24:25pm

Cougar86 Starter

I’m right there with you... I’m a loner now.

I have my core 3 friends we go to lunch and golf and take trips together. I have no desire to put effort in to meet new people. My time is not mine any longer, everything belongs to my kids. My wife on the other hand is a social butterfly, makes friends all the time.

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Cougar86

Bio page: Cougar86
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Last login: Apr 25, 2024
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Does anyone else feel that they're really bad at making new friends?

4/19/19 3:19pm

I’m the same way. Co-workers try to shame me for not spending time with friends, but my family is enough for me.

scootsy

4/19/19 3:23pm

I’m right there with you... I’m a loner now.

Cougar86

4/19/19 3:24pm

Yes and you sound normal, just like me

Akilleez

4/19/19 3:24pm

Well if I'm just like a bunch of CBers, I don't know if I should celebrate or

4/19/19 3:27pm

RE: Does anyone else feel that they're really bad at making new friends?

4/19/19 3:25pm

my 14 yr old

BlueFrog

4/19/19 3:26pm

He needs new genes

scootsy

4/19/19 3:28pm

*jeans

scootsy

4/19/19 3:28pm

I never once thought that until the last five years. I think it’s a normal part

4/19/19 3:29pm

Not at all. I have 3 or 4 guys in my neighborhood that are like brothers.

4/19/19 3:37pm

Not me. I love my family, but a good boys trip fishing, shooting, or dining is

germm

4/19/19 3:37pm

My friends are the guys that play pickup ball. I don't do anything outside that

4/19/19 3:40pm

I suppose it comes down to if you're happy. I kind of keep to myself except for

Agnostic-alumni

4/19/19 3:43pm

My wife asked if I wrote this, that's how spot on this is for me.

Jimo Dashen

4/19/19 3:46pm

I’m not bad at it...I just have no desire to do it.

Pimpin4Paradise

4/19/19 3:52pm

Right, I'm not terrible at socializing, but my desire is totally gone. I'd

4/19/19 3:54pm

Yep, if I'm going to do things, I want to do it with my wife and/or kids.

jdub

4/19/19 3:54pm

I'm good at making new friends. And I love making new friends, But I'm awful

ditch

4/19/19 3:59pm

But here's a question for you.

ditch

4/19/19 4:01pm

Normal

4/19/19 4:08pm

I think often for men the family unit and maybe a small friend group is enough

jhingman

4/19/19 4:41pm

It's like Jerry Seinfeld said. As you get older you no longer take requests

TNT

4/19/19 4:53pm

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