I met and married the absolute love of my life. Recently I began to open myself to dating, mostly because staring at walls every weekend gets old. The problem is, no one can match up to my late wife. She was absolutely perfect for me. No one else even comes close. I guess my question is, should I settle for pretty good because I'm still alive and hope for the best or should I hold out for something potentially incredible should I ever find it? Based on this post you might assume I'm not ready. I'm not. I'm not sure I ever will be, but many women seem to be anxious to tell me they are falling in love with me and I feel like a jerk because I'm dead inside.