had to come to the realization that one of my bro's is not at all what I thought he was.

I've always seem him through these rose colored glasses and now that I'm older and given some recent events there is no denying that this dude is pretty much just a chump. It is just a sad realization. Fortunately we don't live close to each other but I'm a little worried about interactions going forward... I don't hide stuff like this well.