Jun 23, 2019
10:25:39am
10:25:39am
I think we do young ladies a large disservice by treating dating like charity.
At its core, finding a spouse is a game in social economics. It's not some charitable contribution that each man is required to distribute equally among all applicants. We do not set these ladies up for success when we teach them that they are reliant on the charity and good will of some man to be happy in life. If more people would focus on how to win the game instead of on why they think others are making them lose, that can go a long way.
When I was looking for a spouse, i looked for a good looking girl that I could relate to. End of story. No matter how much the bishop encouraged us to take girls out on charity dates, I never complied because, you know, dating isn't charity. There's no rule I need to be fair in who I ask out on dates. And I found that I generally had about as much success as I put into it.
When I was looking for a spouse, i looked for a good looking girl that I could relate to. End of story. No matter how much the bishop encouraged us to take girls out on charity dates, I never complied because, you know, dating isn't charity. There's no rule I need to be fair in who I ask out on dates. And I found that I generally had about as much success as I put into it.
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I feel for her. My dating game was pathetic at BYU. I was 400 pounds and had zero confidence. I decided to change
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