Sign up, and you'll be able to customize your font size and more! Sign up
Jun 23, 2019
7:37:08pm
Shore10 All-American
My dating history at BYU was basically me being distracted or bad timing...
I dunno if I was "stupid". I did my best, wasn't enough. Lots of guys don't get married at college either.

I saw girls I liked, tried to go after them, didn't end up working out. Maybe I was swinging for the fences. While I was pursuing her, there were other gals I probably should've gone after, but didn't. Sometimes we liked each other at different times. Sometimes it was just really bad luck. College goes really fast.

Then they were gone. It sucks, but that's how it worked out. I see them from time to time on social media. Yeah, it kinda keeps me up at night.

Now I'm 37, male and single. I've had some long-term relationships but there's a mental block there for me. I get a lot of jokes about only being at angel status etc at church. I go less now because of it. I kinda miss it, but not that much since church is less meaningful now to me. TBH I get so little out of GC and the talks preaching about exaltation and marriage and that's the only thing worth anything in life etc.

Don't think everyone except your daughter are living a party there. Lots of people are just trying to figure it all out. Doesn't help when you have a religion saying you're falling short of potential glory if you can't snag a mate.
Shore10
Bio page
Shore10
Joined
Oct 26, 2009
Last login
Mar 29, 2024
Total posts
14,722 (138 FO)
Messages
Author
Time
6/22/19 11:18pm
6/22/19 11:57pm
6/23/19 5:10am

Posting on CougarBoard

In order to post, you will need to either sign up or log in.