couple of months. You do not like this individual for some reason but are very nice to them. You then find out that this person had a tragic occurance to them or someone in their family years ago, before you knew them. Does that change the way you view them? Do you now like them?
I have had this situation happen to me twice. And after learning about the tragedy I over looked all of their wrongs and maybe gave them more understanding than I did prior. Would you do the same thing?