I have heard off the record stats that men that have sex once a week are much

Jul 16, 2019
10:26:13pm

johnnybyu All-American

less likely to view porn. I think there is a lots of error in these stats but I do think the lack of sexual relations with a partner is a significant factor.

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Time

What are some ways to kick porn addiction?

Jericho

7/16/19 6:00pm

Marry a pornstar.

Zedhead

7/16/19 6:02pm

I get the joke, but, frankly, I've been amazed at the guys I've known with

CoogsWin

7/16/19 6:30pm

It almost never has anything to do with sex itself but trying to cope with some greater issue

DKN

7/16/19 6:43pm

It’s not the with who, but the how much imo.. and u you can rarely

cougfanz

7/16/19 6:44pm

You can start by telling your friend it’s not an addiction.

Brutus216

7/16/19 6:03pm

He’ll be so relieved.

Jericho

7/16/19 6:07pm

Didn’t say it wasn’t a problematic

Brutus216

7/16/19 6:34pm

Porn addiction is actually a thing. Of course the term "addiction" is over-used

garyfan

7/16/19 6:12pm

More often than not it is more a compulsion than an addiction.

Eddie

7/16/19 6:25pm

Sometimes it is & sometimes it isn’t. Using that term when it isn’t is harmful just like not using it when it is.

soupie

7/16/19 11:39pm

Two promises from apostles in helping:

Future_Tacos

7/16/19 6:04pm

As a bishop, indexing has been nothing short of miraculous

Hoss Bonaventure

7/16/19 6:50pm

Huh?!?!? For porn?

pink22

7/16/19 7:05pm

My stake president swears by it

LeslieKnope

7/16/19 7:09pm

So instead of porn addiction they are bored to death

pink22

7/17/19 12:54pm

Dying does that. For sure

Idahofallsblue

7/17/19 4:43pm

Exactly

pink22

7/17/19 4:47pm

Yep. It's been the one constant that has helped people at all levels of use.

Hoss Bonaventure

7/16/19 7:37pm

The Church made a video about this where a guy talks about how it helped him.

garyfan

7/16/19 7:48pm

Think about it. What else could be more effective at killing your libido?

Odysseus

7/17/19 7:58am

If you are indexing then you aren't doing other things. It's avoiding idle time,

TailgateU

7/17/19 9:22am

Like most addictions, it's a coping mechanism for an underlying issue.

mik3

7/16/19 6:05pm

There's Addiction Recovery Services

displacedute

7/16/19 6:09pm

Staying busy

Ryan M

7/16/19 6:11pm

Replace it with a video game addiction

donnerstag

7/16/19 6:16pm

Get your bishop and loved ones you can trust on board. There is a power in

vegasnative

7/16/19 6:18pm

Family search. I served as a councilor to a bishop who said the family search

Garn

7/16/19 6:21pm

I wonder if they do family search in incognito mode out of habit sometimes

TEXAS

7/16/19 6:32pm

Richie?

TNT

7/16/19 7:44pm

I'm skeptical that it's an addiction, but I'm not sure its helpful to focus on

Goliath

7/16/19 6:22pm

Have more intercourse

cougfanz

7/16/19 6:24pm

First good response so far

Jericho

7/16/19 6:26pm

Sadly it takes two for that particular tango. Lack a willing partner=no dice.

Homercles

7/16/19 8:06pm

Sex is one of the hallmarks of a healthy marital relationship

Jericho

7/16/19 8:13pm

Well... yeah. Water is also wet. The point is, if that's not on the table...

Homercles

7/16/19 8:22pm

I have heard off the record stats that men that have sex once a week are much

johnnybyu

7/16/19 10:26pm

What if it's more than once a week? Is that even better?

Loon to the Moon

7/16/19 11:46pm

RE: What if it's more than once a week? Is that even better?

Homercles

7/17/19 12:42am

Therapy

spugeddy24

7/16/19 6:45pm

Stop caring, the guilt seriously feeds it.

Cabadapeste

7/16/19 7:13pm

There is truth to this

Josef K

7/16/19 8:06pm

Relax more. Try getting massages. I find they help me

BIG XII Coug

7/16/19 7:52pm

Splash acid in your eyes

cougarnerd

7/16/19 7:58pm

Have sex with your wife a lot?

boxydutch

7/16/19 8:09pm

Some common threads I've seen in people who make progress

korihor

7/16/19 8:41pm

No family history or indexing?

Jericho

7/16/19 8:44pm

Yeah. He mentioned it in #6.

Future_Tacos

7/16/19 9:00pm

Tell someone

Idahofallsblue

7/16/19 9:37pm

Eliminate the availability by avoiding isolated internet/media use.

cougarfuzz

7/16/19 10:02pm

Recognize that this is NOT primarily about spirituality or morality.

valleus

7/16/19 10:14pm

Great post.

TriggerWarning

7/17/19 12:48pm

Here are many resources the Church has produced for leaders, family members and those seeking to overcome

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