then that would have very little to do with addiction. you could be in complete
control - something you do sparingly, in moderation, yet those times you do indulge, it interferes with that ability to commune with God.
if you are in complete control, but choose to do said activity once every 3 or 4 months (or whatever), nobody would consider that an addiction, but it would interfere with that communion.
the comparison would be you choose to drink once every couple months when you go out with friends and you get drunk - that interferes with said communion, but definitely not an addiction in any way, shape, or form to alcohol.
"The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen." Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
With compassion, we see benevolently our own human condition and the condition of our fellow beings. We drop prejudice. We withhold judgment.
“Compassion is not a relationship between the healer and the wounded. It’s a relationship between equals. Only when we know our own darkness well can we be present with the darkness of others. Compassion becomes real when we recognize our shared humanity.” – Pema Chödrön
“Let our hearts be stretched out in compassion toward others, for everyone is walking his or her own difficult path.” – Dieter F. Uchtdorf