You're right, I don't know the amount, nor do you. But cash = benefits.
Are you really going to argue that Emery taking a car or trips isn't the same as cash? And aren't you jumping to conclusions that what Chase Young did is worse, simply because it's OSU (an easy target) and Emery is a BYU guy?
As a fan of both, I see A LOT of similarities on the surface (knowing what has been reported).