sufficient cool down period. In person or on soc media. It irritates me we react to the dumbest common denominator. Whether it be what an opposing fan or minority of fans does or says or whatever. Goes for all sides of fandom, political, religion, whatever. It gets worse by the month imo, the blanket conclusions re those we disagree with, more extreme & not a stretch to say hateful. Re my pet peeves, im as guilty as any.