up paying for own wedding. For this reason, I’ve already started setting money aside for my daughters (and sons if needed). Just be ready to help as much as needed or as you can I don’t think it hurts to save as much money as possible for both. We were able to pay for all of ours and it turned out nice but it was a lot more stressful trying to pay for it all while still trying to save money for tuition and everything is else.