One more reason that I err on the side of monitor/teaching rather than restricting

Sep 21, 2020
8:58:17am

CSoul Intervention Needed

The more you restrict absolutely the more likely 1 or more of your kids will just find a way to consume the media away from your control. It's always better for them to make mistakes within your field of vision. Just something to think about.

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My kids are only 9, 6 & 3. The thought of social media for them terrifies me

RockyBalboa

9/21/20 8:17am

Delay until high school.

kccougar

9/21/20 8:20am

Call me dark ages Dad, but my kids all had to wait until 16 before any social

Ode to Hoy

9/21/20 8:23am

I like this approach. If your kid wants a phone, get a relay by republic

doctorcoug

9/21/20 8:27am

That is a great idea. 3 of my kids are all older now, but my youngest (9) would

Ode to Hoy

9/21/20 8:29am

My 6 year old ran free last year when he was 5. It just made me smile to see him

doctorcoug

9/21/20 8:33am

It's like I'm looking in the mirror.

ochobeeguy

9/21/20 12:17pm

Google family link is really quite awesome. I use that with mm guardian and I

doctorcoug

9/21/20 8:22am

WDaddy

9/21/20 8:58am

We are a no phone until 15. We have a “family cell phone” that can be used up

BYU-Ite

9/21/20 8:26am

The new Apple Watch seems like a good midway point

v1k0u6

9/21/20 8:26am

be interesting to see if this satisfies the teenage cell phone angst

Cougarclaw

9/21/20 8:56am

I have 15, 13 11 and 7 and none are on social and none have their own phones.

Iman23

9/21/20 8:31am

I fully support this type of approach. Kids need to be kids, when you allow them

Ode to Hoy

9/21/20 8:36am

That’s what you think. Kids are very good at figuring out ways. They want to fit

pink22

9/21/20 8:45am

Good for you. To heck w/ what people say. You're doing great by your kids.

gangbusters

9/21/20 9:48am

My take is to Get them into sports or something they’re really passionate about

cougfanz

9/21/20 8:32am

Watching "Social Dilemma" on Netflix seems like a must for families

JoMax

9/21/20 8:33am

Did I see El Jefe on there talking about the joys of CB addiction?

Cougarclaw

9/21/20 8:57am

I deleted FB immediately after watching it. Been going strong for 9 days!

Tortillero

9/21/20 10:16am

Our kids have smart phones with limited internet access. No social media. Ever.

Misteak

9/21/20 8:34am

RE: My kids are only 9, 6 & 3. The thought of social media for them

NotRelated

9/21/20 8:41am

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Cougazul

9/21/20 8:42am

What filters/monitors do people use (iPhone)?

cougfanz

9/21/20 8:45am

I've pointed out that reading these CB threads you would think the majority of

CSoul

9/21/20 8:53am

One more reason that I err on the side of monitor/teaching rather than restricting

CSoul

9/21/20 8:58am

Totally agree. They can’t stay immune forever. Better to teach while

blackandblue

9/21/20 8:59am

One caution with this approach though, is that you actually do have to take the

BYU-Ite

9/21/20 10:14am

And it is a LOT harder to monitor than anyone thinks. We have used all the apps

runnincoug

9/21/20 12:20pm

It bothers me that the church leans so heavily on it.

ochobeeguy

9/21/20 12:24pm

It’s any organization. We use group me. But it’s nearly impossible to coordinate

blackandblue

9/21/20 12:26pm

Why not email? I know it's not as instantaneous but it works

runnincoug

9/21/20 12:30pm

It's not impossible to do what people had done for 100 years.

ochobeeguy

9/21/20 11:30pm

Completely agree with this approach

OrangeCougar

9/21/20 10:06am

I can absolutely see your point.

BYU-Ite

9/21/20 9:02am

Most I've seen just use the phone for babysitting b/c they don't want to

Iman23

9/21/20 9:37am

I'll agree that the biggest problem I've observed is parents who are not savvy about the technology their kids are using

SaturdaySpecialDay

9/21/20 9:48am

Our kids are almost the same age. Our oldest have not asked for phones

Cougarclaw

9/21/20 8:59am

Tip: You are in control (My kids had phones since they were ~10)

TheLost

9/21/20 9:06am

Delay as long as possible...we waited until age 16 for oldest. Now we'll wait

runnincoug

9/21/20 9:29am

Our kids have smart phones at age 13, but the apps are limited. They can do social media at 14, but only using mom or

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