Sign up, and you'll be able to customize your font size and more! Sign up
Oct 20, 2020
8:56:43pm
Soupie Grandma Sycamore
Gotta ask if any of you men here would be so money hungry that you'd do this to your wife.
A year and a half ago we decided to build our retirement dream house. We found a lot and started but my husband was never really invested in the process. I'd show him floor plans and design choices but he would only give minimal input. He travels a lot for work so I'd try to get him to give his opinion every chance I got.

When it was finished, all he could do was complain about every little detail. Then the complaining bled out to friends and family. Finally I got sick of it and asked that he stop doing that. How on earth can a person feel they have any right to complain about something they were given every opportunity to give feedback on but chose not to? Dude! If you cared, the time to say something was during the planning and building process. That ship sailed long before you move in.

Then to make all that soooo much worse, I'm out of town for a family funeral and come home to learn he listed our house and SOLD it. Yes, sold it without even discussing it with me! What the heck? Who does that? To make matters worse, the price is $20K less than one sold for down the street that's smaller with fewer custom features. He saw the $50k we would profit but didn't bother to check comps underestimating the market. Didn't even get a market analysis from an agent. Seriously?

No idea what to do. I could divorce him or kill him. I'm thinking the latter since I know there's not a jury in the land who would convict me for murder.
This message has been modified
Originally posted on Oct 20, 2020 at 8:56:43pm
Message modified by Soupie on Oct 20, 2020 at 9:00:36pm
Soupie
Bio page
Soupie
Joined
Dec 29, 2015
Last login
Mar 29, 2024
Total posts
94,606 (30,717 FO)
Messages
Author
Time
10/20/20 9:00pm
10/20/20 9:11pm
9.9
10/20/20 9:35pm
10/20/20 9:44pm
10/21/20 11:00am

Posting on CougarBoard

In order to post, you will need to either sign up or log in.