I know a lot of people who

Jun 14, 2021
10:52:51am

lukeskywalker All-American

make good money, save responsibly, and invest, and have plenty left over to buy boats, trucks, etc.. Not everyone is in debt to their eyeballs.

Report problem with this ad

lukeskywalker

Bio page: lukeskywalker
Joined: Jun 30, 2007
Last login: Apr 24, 2024
Total posts: 3,264 (2 FO)

Report problem with this ad

Messages

Author

Time

I'm not sure which extreme of the Saving vs. Spending spectrum I feel more sad

macdizzle

6/14/21 8:49am

Striking a balance is tough it would seem. At least you are a freaking wealthy CBer and make oodles of cash

TNT

6/14/21 8:51am

lol, "figure out retirement."

Mayor of Cougartown

6/14/21 8:53am

This sounds like a divorce waiting to happen

bruincoug

6/14/21 9:07am

or working at Home Depot in your 70's. Or some crummy retail place.

Mayor of Cougartown

6/14/21 9:11am

Guys like that often trade in for the younger model — if it feels good do it

bruincoug

6/14/21 9:15am

Hopefully your in-laws can get that figured out. I think they did the right

Regal Ute

6/14/21 8:54am

my life experience has shown me that people like this rarely leave it to their

Mayor of Cougartown

6/14/21 8:56am

Where does all the money go?

TNT

6/14/21 8:56am

they'll give it to various charities. Don't want to "spoil" the kids or whatever

Mayor of Cougartown

6/14/21 9:00am

Having cash thrown at a person isnt a posutive thing

Backcountry

6/14/21 9:06am

Partly agree. Most people get inheritances when they are in their 40s to 60s. It can still be a big negative

Clark Addison

6/14/21 9:08am

exactly. A person getting money in their 40's and 50's can help with college

Mayor of Cougartown

6/14/21 9:10am

Thats a really good point

Backcountry

6/14/21 9:11am

And they shouldnt

Backcountry

6/14/21 9:00am

I feel the same way. There is stupid on both ends of the spectrum. Honestly,

Superman21

6/14/21 8:57am

Money is the biggest challenge in my marriage. Happily married but I am

Iman23

6/14/21 8:58am

You and I are similarly situated

bruincoug

6/14/21 9:08am

Definitely easier to make more money. It's rare to be able to cut costs when

marticorp

6/14/21 10:49am

Well looks like you and your wife will be in for a big inheritance if they continue down that path. But of course you'd

TheLoneCougar

6/14/21 9:00am

I think the in-laws see things correctly. I love the conservative approach.

Backcountry

6/14/21 9:06am

Except for the stealing part. I'd rather pay the $20 that I owe and feel

Elwood Blues

6/14/21 12:23pm

It's crazy to see how many people play the FOMO game

UVCoug

6/14/21 9:07am

Money is meant to be spent. You have have to decide what you want to spend it on

Powerbait DPM

6/14/21 9:07am

I’m kind of the same. I have been saving to pay for college for my kids but there will be no “inheritance “ to speak of

Slim

6/14/21 9:11am

This is a good middle ground, though I don’t buy toys etc I spend money on

kotacoug

6/14/21 10:02am

I hope to be able to help out my kids when starting a young family.

Powerbait DPM

6/14/21 1:28pm

Best thing to help them out is to give them the skill set to do it on their own.

kotacoug

6/14/21 3:12pm

I agree, but no harm in helping out if done correctly. I’m not saying buy a car

Powerbait DPM

6/14/21 6:03pm

The key is to balance those two perspectives as well as you can. My wife and I

dYrtbYkerYder

6/14/21 9:10am

Homes are different. Cant lump them into the same category as cars, tpys, trips,

Backcountry

6/14/21 9:13am

RE: The key is to balance those two perspectives as well as you can. My wife and

chivo

6/14/21 11:29pm

Where I come out on this is:

Doctor Rosenrosen

6/14/21 9:12am

Mine was similar with different criteria. As we moved around the country

Nat Gas Man

6/14/21 9:26am

I have a lot of similar age/ similar income friends that have a lot more than I

LeonMarek

6/14/21 9:13am

Just curious - are these friends LDS? I'm fascinated and a little baffled

kos

6/14/21 9:35am

Moreso outside the church, but I've seen plenty within as well.

LeonMarek

6/14/21 9:41am

“Send it back and get a refund (this is planned)” do they not see this as stealing? How do they possibly defend this

vegasnative

6/14/21 9:31am

We won't go to dinner with them anymore. That's how we've addressed it.

macdizzle

6/14/21 9:32am

You are a better person than me. I would have difficulty not calling them out on it. I just really hate stealing. You

vegasnative

6/14/21 9:48am

Are your in-laws leaving their money to their kids? If so I’d be fine with how

Penske Material

6/14/21 9:39am

Its astonishing how many of those spenders there are and how many are broke.

rad dawg

6/14/21 9:43am

Your friend's story is familiar.

Don Carlton

6/14/21 10:07am

I’ve heard it said that the 1%ers don’t buy toys they buy assets, middle class

Nat Gas Man

6/14/21 10:07am

You don’t get wealthy by consuming stuff

hansel

6/14/21 11:47am

That last paragraph sounds 100% MISERABLE

kotacoug

6/14/21 9:58am

Enjoy your inheritance 🙂

steakandtaters

6/14/21 10:37am

Live like no one else, so you can live and GIVE like no one else

steakandtaters

6/14/21 10:41am

there is a difference between frugal and cheap, and your in-laws are on the

lukeskywalker

6/14/21 10:38am

I know a lot of people who

lukeskywalker

6/14/21 10:52am

You've found both extremes. I remember a random home teaching lesson 2 decades

Stev_ie

6/14/21 11:37am

My initial thought was that one extreme would lead to more peace, but not the

TailgateU

6/14/21 12:25pm

I'm guessing you're friends with the toys aren't actually broke.

Whiskey

6/14/21 12:33pm

I know which side of that equation I want to be friends with. For all our admira

Von Cougarschnauzer

6/14/21 1:18pm

Hate going on vacation with big spenders. Can't keep up with them. Feels like

Mitty

6/14/21 11:10pm

The problem with the you only live once idea is that you actually live forever

Stev_ie

6/14/21 1:21pm

Report problem with this ad

Posting on CougarBoard

In order to post, you will need to either sign up or log in.

Report problem with this ad