Divorce where her husband cheated on her. 30 years later she still hated him and couldn’t stand the thought of him, everyone else and moved on and no one remembered it. He had been rebaptized it was an active member in good standing but her hatred stopped her progress. She was so full of spite that she couldn’t do what was good for her and in her best interest.
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