I don't say this to be mean, or to rag on your daughter (who I've never seen). Parent's just have a different view of their kids than the rest of the world.
My parents were blown away when I told them my younger sister wasn't in the same league as the guys I hung out with, and that setting any of them up with her would be an insult. She's Miss Universe in their eyes.
*All this said, you're right about boys these days. They're oblivious or wimps - or both.