I think it can be very effective, though obviously not the ideal motivation

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Jan 28, 2022
2:20:06pm

Gustav Truly Addicted User

I think it can be very effective, though obviously not the ideal motivation

Psychology Today

Shame and Motivation to Change

Could the emotion we run from the fastest help us to be better people?

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/creative-synthesis/201501/shame-and-motivation-change[https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/creative-synthesis/201501/shame-and-motivation-change%3famp]

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25401288/#:~:text=We%20report%202%20studies%20examining,a%20motivation%20for%20self%2Dchange.

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Gustav

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What's the data on shaming? Does it work to change behavior? Side effects?

jvquarterback

1/28/22 2:15pm

Shame sucks. It leads to keeping problems secret and that's no way to get help.

Ted Lasso

1/28/22 2:16pm

That's a little different than what I'm asking. I want data to show someone who

jvquarterback

1/28/22 2:23pm

I think it can be very effective, though obviously not the ideal motivation

Gustav

1/28/22 2:20pm

Interesting. Self-shaming brings about real change in oneself more than guilty

jvquarterback

1/28/22 2:35pm

Like using the analogy that someone is a licked cupcake or chewed gum? Elizabet

MacsKid

1/28/22 2:28pm

Yep because shame can make people think that because they made a mistake

ByuImaginesDragons

1/28/22 11:08pm

No data, but I'd surmise it leads mostly to silent entrenchment

Bob Vance

1/28/22 2:31pm

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ByuImaginesDragons

1/28/22 11:09pm

I don’t have data but it seems like shame only results in low self esteem and

ByuImaginesDragons

1/28/22 11:24pm

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