"The family got together & came up with a way to get her & and my 2 youngest siblings back home, then fortunately the guy passed away a few months later"

Just kidding, that's a crazy story and inspirational that you and so many siblings have been able to rise above all of that. Something I'll never wrap my mind around is how people like you can do that, but others with so much less adversity fail to do so. I'm not criticizing them, we're just a complicated people I guess.