...get together, pray in whatever way they do, talk it through with a singular focus being on what would be best for their loved one that is sick. When it's the case of a child, I can't imagine even having to discuss or think that way. However, in my ICU experience, it seems to be the best way to make decisions about timing for comfort care only. Immediate family has the chance to voice their concerns or feelings, but the focus remains on what their loved one would want and what is best for them. My heart breaks for every one of these cases. Pray, pour out your heart. He hears and answers you.