Of course whatever you are doing at the time will always be your highest priority or focus. If you are playing Halo then Halo is your number one focus at the time.

Where the rubber meets the road as far as priorities is what takes precedence when those different items compete with each other. For example, if you've worked 8 hours at your job, and then your wife calls and asks you to come home so you can watch your daughter's ballet recital, you're the ward mission leader and the Elders ask you to go teach a lesson with them, but your boss asks you to stay late to finish a project, and you also are scheduled to lift weights with a buddy at the gym. In this case, you have several different priorities competing with each other for time, so which wins out? I would probably stay and work, but I can see arguments for each.

In Bronco's case, I'm sure his first priority is football when he is coaching. The bigger question is given his limited time, does he skip family home evening on Monday nights to watch extra game film and call recruits? Does he spend Thursday night preparing for the game or preparing his talk for the fireside?

I can't answer that question in regards to Bronco, but I know what Urban Meyer, Nick Saban, Mark Dantonio, and Chip Kelly are doing, and it isn't FHE.