her in a dorm. She comes back home at Christmas. She says, "You've got to get me out of the dorm." I ask why" She says, "There is someone crying all of the time."

Your post reminded me of this. You did leave one thing off. Every comment by every coach, player or administrator is twisted and restated to fit the mindset of all too many posters on the board. Reminds me of trying to have a rational conversation with a very upset woman.