If Whittingham and Bronco won't even show up to the same charity golf events anymore then even you should be able to see that there is real disdain between him and bronco.

Whittingham could easily instill a winning mentality and culture without showing outright disdan himself. You can pump your players up while still being respectful to your opponent. If you're too dense to see that, look at dave rose and steve fisher. They are great friends and are very respectful one towards the other and yet their teams still have always played tough games on the court.

His hatred is not an appearance. It may have been at the beginning of his time at utah but it is now very real. If not then he de serves an Oscar for his acting performance. However, it isn't an act. His hate is real.