at Salem Hills the past two seasons.

When I asked about him going on a mission: hearty laughter
When I asked about why BYU hadn't offered: "I'd lose all respect for BYU coaches if they offered him"
When I asked about the "incident": told that there are some kids who quit football and/or transferred to other schools because of the embarrassment of what was done to them.

I don't know the specifics and didn't ask. I don't want to know them. But, as you said, whatever the reasons that BYU has I am sure they are very good and valid.