he will NOT fall asleep without me. even though he sleeps in same bed as older brother. when he wakes up in night he's so scared he crawls into our bed and tries to sleep with us. i'm gonna lose my mind...me and my wife are sleep deprived...we've talked with him about it, he has a night light, a flash light, the hall light on, we've tried having him lay on the floor by my bed but he just whimpers and i feel bad and can't sleep anyway.

we can't keep doing this...now he's "grounded" every time he comes in our bed...two days in a row now. i'm at a loss of what to do and i'm getting sick b/c of lack of sleep. any tips?