then losing but I bet BYU want its students to also learn to deal failure as well as winning as they will have many wins and loses in their future that is why sports is a great teacher. So what do you do when you do not "win" give up or learn from your loss? This is a school first were learning is empathized and winning desired but not always-ed achieved. So each of you have always won at sports and life? Did you learn more from a loss in life or from a win? They say a muscle must be broken down before it can become stronger so losses are part of all of our lives and how we deal with them with them have will determine the type of men or women all of us hope will be.