worse things in life than not having sex, as wonderful as that is. I'm not saying it'd be easy, but God asked Abraham to sacrifice his only son for mercy's sake. He asks all of us sometimes to do hard things.

Plus, to be honest, I'm not interested in sex without the loving attachment. So the real question is if my wife died, could I love again? I don't know, but probably because I'm in my late 30s and have a lot of life ahead of me.