team is the only recipient of iffy calls, that it's why their team lost, and finally, the winning teams fans complain an inordinate amount relative to any and every fan.
You left out PED's, & Carroll cheating at SC. One thing I do think is the case more than in the past, grown men not manning up & accepting the outcome w/o deluding themselves by believing their team lost for some reason not within their control.
Except for calls the best QBs get to protect them, & the disadvantage to D in the modern game, I'd be willing to bet statistical analysis shows tight/iffy calls are spread equally amongst the league.