This is the kind of stuff that drives me crazy about fans and fellow members who do not have friends outside the Church. It must be a frightening, treacherous world in which you live.
The last week on this board has been insane. Everyone is not out to get you. Overly Attached Rivalry Girlfriend needs to let them go if they want to go. Everyone here insists they will be fine but everything they write about their attempts to dump us points to the opposite.