But in all seriousness, it bugs me when people imply that I wasn't smart enough to get in based on grades. Or that they made an exception because I'm a minority. I don't think the lady in relief society is necessarily intending it that way, but I've been in too many conversations where people complain about their kid not getting in because they had to make room for minorities with worse grades and all the affirmative action stuff. It's a dumb thing to get annoyed by, but it bugs me.