Big mistake by Tom.
I truly believe Tom wants BYU football to succeed. He's not going to allow Kalani to destroy the program & set it back years. If he does they'll be hell to pay from the fans, boosters & alumni.
I get your sense of dread because BYU (& the Church) is so "conflict-avoidant" but crossroads have to be crossed. Money speaks volumes for the BOT & the money will disappear quickly if football goes south.