"You're making her get your gas?" Yeah, he actually started running his mouth to a complete stranger. Of course, I wasn't "making" her do anything. She just jumped out of the car and got to work. She's self-sufficient. Yes, I sometimes do things for her. But she doesn't need me to.

Years ago, I taught a woman how to pump her own gas. Her husband had recently passed away. He's always done it for her. She'd become totally dependent on him for that and many other things. It was a tough situation - one to be avoided.